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The #1 thing new moms need? To show up + support us by Heather Marcoux with Mother.ly

The #1 thing new moms need? To show up + support us



When you have a baby, especially your first baby, people want to help. They bring over what seems like hundreds of onesies, books on child-rearing, bottles they swear calm colic, piles of receiving blankets and So. Many. Tiny. Toys.
Most parents appreciate the gifts, but according to experts, what new parents really need in the first month of baby’s life can’t be found in stores: We need support—from ourselves, our loved ones and our communities.
This gathering of a village doesn’t only help ease the transition, but has also been shown to lessen rates of postpartum depression and anxiety.

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